How would you discipline this child?
my aunt has three lovely boys..
but she nor her husband have gave this baby much discipline
the small boy [[kenny]] is 3 1/2 years ancient & he is the worst behaved
his dad allows him to do EVERYTHING
he even allows my cousin to bite him
& kenny throws things at everybody & doesn’t get in distress
he throws remote controls, brushes, toys i mean everything
he throws his food on the ground
i went to visit them & i left my two month ancient baby diaper bag in the couch
kenny grabbed the diaper rash [[it was a groundbreaking new one]] & squeezed ALL of it on the diaper bag & inside
he got it on my baby’s clothes, diapers, shoes, even on his carseat & on my aunts couch
of course i didn’t expect her to spank the kid [[i don't believe in hitting a child]]
but atleast acknowledge what he did & get a time out
but this kid does whatever he wants
we went outside & he was riding his electrical car
[[its an actual car that he gets on & drives 12 m/p]]
when his dad told him he couldn’t go out anymore driving his small car
my cousin went crazy he started screaming & scratching his dad’s face & biting him
i was like woa!! he even got his car & drove himself against his dad’s car hitting the rims terrible
he could have gotten hurt
i know he is a small kid but trust me he is very smart & says everything
even foul language all the time & he doesn’t get in distress for saying terrible words to everybody
he even still uses diapers because he doesn’t want to get used to regular underwears even though he talks PERFECTLY,,
im a new mother & i don’t want want my kid to be like that..
i don’t want to spank my child because i believe that time out is effective
kids can’t stand the fact of staying still for not even 5 minutes
but this kid has no discipline at all
none of her kids have
the 10 year ancient uses a lot of foul language & even tells his own mom to shut-up
the 6 year ancient told my husband to suck his d**k & questioned him how many girls he had sex with
& that day i went to visit them he was told to go inside to do his hw instead he just got his bicycle & went out
i just don’t want my baby boy to be like that
i don’t want people talking about how terrible my child misbehaves
i know kids are kids but to a certain point..
i can’t even leave my baby unattended when i go to my aunts house
i caught my small cousin pointing a play gun to my baby’s head when my baby was sleeping in the carseat & i got up to go to the bathroom & the gun had fake bullets so he could have hurted my baby
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Listen carefully – keep your child away from those kids, and their parents.
You may be a new mother, but you have common sense, which they are lacking.
Is this a joke? Why are you going over there? Just stay away. Time outs are very effective when done right, but you have no control over this other child. Just stay away, and have lunch with your aunt in a restaurant once a month to stay in touch (without her son there).
What you have to do is teach him right from incorrect.
I don’t agree with hitting the child especially if he continues his terrible behavior.
Whenever he does something incorrect, sit him down, lower yourself to his level and tell him what he did was incorrect and because of that he will have time out.
Then you must sit him in a chair away from everyone else and leave him there for about 10 minutes. If he keeps getting up keep putting him in the chair until he stays there for that amount of time. It takes A LOT of patience.
After his time out question him if he knows why he got time out and to apologize for what he did incorrect.
The older child may need about a half hour because he is older and should know right from incorrect.
talk to ur aunt tell her about and see if she does anything…if not i reckon u should tell her that if she doesnt control her kids u wont see them very often cuz they could hurt ur baby…thats what i would do anyway
Hope this helps!
Your question is ” How would YOU discipline this child ? ” My answer…I would absolutely spank him !
What I would do if I were you..which might be a hard time but keep your baby away from those children! It sounds like your child is going to get hurt if you keep your baby near them, especially unattended. If you plot on visiting them I would certainly plot on watching the baby every moment because you can’t trust the kids with the baby. The ten year ancient should CERTAINLY know better than to be putting a gun of any kind by your babies head…and even the six year ancient should know better too but certainly the ten year ancient. That is TERRIBLE behavior. They sound like really terrible children who need discipline severely. Maybe you should try talking to your aunt and telling her how you feel and that you don’t want to place her down or anything but you can’t come over if her children are going to place your child in danger and especially with no discipline, that’s ridiculous. Also if you don’t want your son turning out like that I would probably try to keep him away from them as much as possible, as terrible as it sounds or at least until they are under control better! Take care and hope I helped….you can’t really discipline them unless your aunt and her husband give you some kind of permission because they probably wouldn’t listen to you anyway since they aren’t disciplined by their parents. Those children would certainly be discipline if they were mine. They would get toys taken away…and they sound like they are the kind of kids that NEED spankings just because of how out of control they are. I don’t really believe in spanking unless it is ABSOLUTELY necessary. They need to use time out for them…taking stuff away they like to do and just being consistent and forcing the rules…they need rules and some kind of restriction because if not then those kids are just going to keep doing what they want and when they get a bit older its really going to be out of hand. Take care and best of luck…Sorry to hear you are in this kind of situation, it’s rough!